Hello, we are Brad and Holly. Thank you for taking the time to learn about our family and for considering us as prospective parents. We hope this book will share some insight into who we are and the love we share with our family, friends, and each other.

Like many couples today, we met online in the fall of 2020. We were not even living in the same city for most of the time we dated, but we realized early that communication was key to any relationship so we talked every day and saw each other as much as we could. During this time, we learned about our shared interests and saw qualities we loved in each other. Holly moved to be with Brad late in 2021, Brad proposed early in 2022, and we got married in 2023.

As our relationship blossomed, we started discussing what the future looked like. We both came from wonderful loving families and agreed that growing our family was something we deeply desired. As we prayerfully considered adoption, we felt this was the path meant for us, and we’re fully committed to the process. We know growing our family could potentially happen in more than one way, but our energy and love are centered on welcoming a child through adoption. In the meantime, we’re both focused on living healthy, balanced lives so we can be the kind of parent every child deserves.

I grew up in a loving family with two parents and two younger brothers. We were all very close and loved doing things together, especially sporting events and shows. We would go on vacation every spring break to Orlando for a week, and then take other sightseeing vacations in the fall. 

I graduated from college with a Bachelor’s degree in Telecommunications and Journalism and since then have worked at a local television station, first as a production assistant on the morning show, and moving the business side of television, which allows me to enjoy normal hours. I love to broadcast and announce sports including local high school football, girls flag football, volleyball, boys’ and girls’ basketball, and call races at a local short track.

My passions include sports and rooting for my favorite teams which include the Indianapolis Colts, Indiana Pacers, and Indiana University basketball and football. I am also a big racing fan with a passion for Indy Car and NASCAR. I love to watch as much as I can either in person or on television.

One thing that excites me about being a father is the potential to pass down the love that my family gave to me growing up. We will take vacations, go to games, shows and plays and spend a lot of time with family and friends who live close by. My father passed away from cancer in 2021, and I will find it fun to spread his love and tell them stories about him.

Brad’s Favorites

• Food: Chicken Parmesan
• Hobbies: Broadcasting, watching sports, and golfing
• Childhood Memory: Running cross country in high school

I grew up an only child with two loving parents. My parents and I are very close, and we talk on the phone every day! Growing up, I enjoyed playing sports: particularly swimming, bowling, and basketball. I also sang in the choir and played trumpet in the band. I participated in academic clubs, as well as 4H, and as I got older, I volunteered a lot at my church. 

In college, I majored in Construction Management. I learned from a very early age that I wanted to be in construction and help people achieve the home or building of their dreams. I work as an estimator for a local construction company and have been in the construction industry since 2013.  I took some time off to go back to school and get my master’s degree in the same field, and while enrolled, enjoyed being an instructional assistant. 

When I'm not working, I love to spend time with Brad, our kitty Ollie, my family, and friends. I enjoy going to theater shows, sporting events, cooking/baking, and enjoying all things Disney! I hope to share some of my interests with a child and watch them pursue what makes them happy.

Holly’s Favorites

• Food: BBQ Wings
• Hobbies: Swimming, bowling, cooking, and watching Disney movies
• Childhood Memory: My dad coaching my 5th grade basketball team

We absolutely love Indianapolis. It’s a big city that still feels small. We love that we live in the suburbs where it’s quieter, but we aren’t far from downtown where we’re able to cheer on the Pacers or the Colts or any other team who happens to be playing here. There are many parks and playgrounds, as well as the children’s museum and zoo around the area. We cannot wait to take a child to those places, as well as others around the city.

We live in a newer-construction house that we chose to make some improvements to, especially in the backyard. We’ve added a deck and fenced in the backyard, where we entertain friends and family, while also giving children a safe place to run around and play. We’ll admit, Ollie, our orange tabby, loves being outside, too! He was born in 2017, and is the mildest, most mannered, cuddly, sweet boy. He knows how to be independent and play by himself, but we know he will be the best kitty companion to a small child.

We have a nice, diverse neighborhood with sidewalks that are great for evening walks. Everyone is friendly and will wave or stop for a chit-chat. There are many kids, of various ages, in the neighborhood, and it’s nice to see them all riding bikes or playing basketball together. 

We are fortunate to not only be  close with our immediate families, but with our extended families, as well. As a bonus, our families like spending time together, too! Brad’s mom, brothers, sister-in-laws, and our two nephews are not far from us, and it’s great that we get to see them frequently. Holly’s parents live an hour away, but are always willing to meet somewhere, and make a point to see each other often. 

Our parents were born to be grandparents as they are the most loving, generous people we know. Brad’s mom is already a two-time grandma and she’s crushing it! Brad’s brothers are great examples for what it’s like to be a dad to a baby, from mixing a bottle to adventures in changing a diaper. 

We have great friends who are in different phases of life. We have some friends who are still single, some are married or in the process of planning a wedding, and some who are married with children. Most of our friends have been in our life since college or high school. Brad and his longest friend, as well as Holly and her longest friend, have been friends for over 25 years. 

One thing that we love about our friend group is that they are all becoming friends with each other. We enjoy going with friends to sporting events, shows, and just out to dinner. We love to host, whether to watch the Super Bowl or just to have a board game night. Our friends are compassionate, mature, and generous. Just like our family, everyone is so excited about our adoption journey, and cannot wait to become aunts and uncles to a future child. 

While we have individual hobbies like Brad plays golf and Holly crafts and loves music, there are many things we enjoy doing together, like going to sporting events and movies, playing mini golf, enjoying time with family and friends, and participating in our small group Bible study. 

As YMCA members, we enjoy water aerobics and working out. We’re excited to show a child our passion for maintaining a healthy lifestyle.

We’ve created a blend of traditions that we are excited to share with a future child. Disney Movie Night is a monthly tradition, where we pick a movie and make themed food to match. These special moments have strengthened our bond, and we look forward to making even more memories with a child.

In the spring, we love watching the NCAA Basketball tournaments and conduct a pool to see who has the best bracket. We host Easter brunch for our immediate family after attending church.

Summer kicks off with the Indy 500 (Brad has attended 30 races), followed by a relaxing July 4th weekend at Holly’s parents’ RV, complete with food, snacks, board games, and fireworks.

Thanksgiving has been a key holiday in Brad’s family for over three decades. We travel to Ohio to visit extended family, and festivities start with dinner on Wednesday, a family walk and brunch Thursday morning, and Thanksgiving dinner with relatives. We attend the Purdue vs Indiana football game.

Winter traditions include viewing Christmas lights while sipping hot chocolate, Christmas Eve service and dinner with Holly’s parents, and Christmas Day brunch with both sets of parents. We celebrate Christmas with Brad’s siblings around New Year’s, which was his dad’s birthday.

Thank you so much for taking the time to look at our profile and for considering us through this process. We can only imagine how difficult and emotional this path may be, and we truly appreciate your openness. It means the world to us that you’re thoughtfully exploring this journey, and we respect the care and consideration you’re putting into every step. 

No matter the outcome, we are deeply grateful for the opportunity to be a part of your journey, even in this small way. Please know that our hearts are full of gratitude for you and the incredible strength you’re showing. We’re praying for peace and clarity for you in the days, weeks, and months ahead. 

We vow to give a child everything we have to offer – love, acceptance, a healthy lifestyle, and every possible opportunity to succeed. 

We hope to maintain contact throughout the child’s life. Regardless of the level of openness you prefer, we will always remind the child of the loving choices that were made on their behalf. We wish you all the best moving forward.