Our story began in 2019, when we met at our parents' small community church during a holiday visit. What started as communication, quickly grew into dates and weekend trips, as we navigated a two-hour distance. As we spent more time together, we realized how well our personalities complemented each other—Kay Ellen, with her friendly, compassionate nature, and Brian, the conversationalist and natural leader. We knew we had found a relationship that was God-ordained and enduring.

Despite the challenges of the pandemic in 2020, we married, determined to start our life together. We settled in Central Indiana, choosing a home in an established neighborhood, close to our extended families. Both of us grew up surrounded by siblings, so family has always been at the heart of our lives.

After experiencing the heartbreak of a miscarriage and completing difficult IVF treatments, we made the decision to pursue adoption. Our desire to become parents and share the love, values, and support we’ve built together, led us to this path. We are excited to welcome a child into our family and pour all our love into raising them in a home full of faith, laughter, and devotion.

Brian is an exceptional man who blends wisdom, humor, and kindness into everything he does. A finance wiz with a sharp mind, he’s always well-read and enjoys lively, thought-provoking conversations. His quick wit and easygoing nature keep any situation light and fun. 

He has a passion for board games, building Legos, and diving into a wide range of podcasts, keeping his curiosity alive. His deep Christian faith guides him as the steady, loving leader of our family. He’s incredibly grateful for the blessings in his life and shows it through his thoughtful gestures toward those around him. 

Brian is especially devoted to his nieces and nephews, always searching for activities and experiences to help them grow and expand their horizons. And the best part? Kay Ellen often joins in the fun, sharing these moments with love and joy. Brian’s ability to balance fun with faith and humor with wisdom, makes him an extraordinary husband, uncle, and future father.

Kay Ellen is an incredible person who brings warmth and love to everyone she meets. She has a heart of gold—kind, caring, and always thinking of others. Whether it's cooking a meal, sewing a handmade gift, or creating something special through her crafts, she pours her love into everything she does. She’s a true nurturer, spending countless hours with our nieces and nephews, making sure they always feel loved and supported. She has dreamed of being a mother and heartache has unfortunately been part of the journey as she seeks to make motherhood a reality.

As a dedicated nurse practitioner, she goes above and beyond to care for others, often taking the lead in looking after extended family when they are sick. Her compassion, patience, and generosity know no bounds. She’s not just an amazing wife, but an extraordinary woman and future mother, who makes the world a better place simply by being in it.

Our home in Central Indiana reflects who we are—warm, welcoming, and full of character. Our house feels like home because it’s filled with the things we have passion for—craft projects in progress, ingredients for distinctive meals in the refrigerator, library books scattered around, and our favorite YouTube channels saved. It’s a place where creativity and comfort thrive, and where every corner has a story to tell. A fun Jack-and-Jill style bathroom is upstairs for the extra bedrooms, and a kitchenette is nestled in the basement that lends opportunities to lounge around in.

While dating, we started walking around the neighborhood, as it was an attractive location to explore. Brian was immediately struck by the neighborhood and stated that one day we would live here. Fast forward eight months from that conversation, we found an amazing house in our first-choice neighborhood. We have a strong connection with our neighbors, often walking to the nearby pizza parlor where slushies are a neighborhood favorite, or spending time poolside to enjoy each other’s company. The community has a wonderful sense of camaraderie, with green spaces that host local concerts and events.

Our area is rich in cultural and recreational offerings, making it a unique place for children to grow up. Within just a few miles, you’ll find multiple museums, sports activities, and musical events, ensuring that there’s always something fun to do. Schools in the county are top in the state of Indiana and offer excellent academics. Here, a child would have the opportunity to explore their interests, make lasting memories, and thrive in a community that values connection, creativity, and fun.

Our family is a close-knit group, both of our sets of siblings all live in the same state as us! Grandparents are within a 2.5 hour drive from our home, and there are a dozen cousins waiting in the wings for a new playmate! 

With one set of grandparents living in the country (on a farm with animals) and another in the city (near a lake), outings with them will be varied. When we shared our decision to adopt, our family’s excitement and support were immediate. They are thrilled to welcome a child into the fold and are eager to be a part of their life. From offering a helping hand to providing spiritual guidance, our family will play an active, positive role in the child’s journey. 

While we talk with our parents and siblings regularly, we also have a deep bond with our nieces and nephews. Their energy and joy bring so much light into our lives, and we love spending time with them, whether it’s playing games, going on outings, or simply sharing special moments. Our family is full of love and laughter, stewardship and serving others, and still prioritizes intentional time for just us.

Our Christian faith guides much of our life and we set Sundays apart for such. We are devoted to Christ, realize Christ’s sacrifice for us, and understand our lives are extensions of His love for us.

Traditions that bring us closer every year include Brian’s family’s traditional Greek lamb dinner Christmas and Kay Ellen’s family’s New Year’s Day bowling. Our families also look for experiences, not just gift giving at the holidays. Birthday parties present another opportunity for different sized family gatherings. We try to create a festive atmosphere, do a themed meal along with party favors for lasting memories.

Winter activities along with family gatherings include Christmas light viewings, gingerbread house building with cousins, a neighborhood winter festival and sledding on the farm. Spring brings throwing the frisbee and Easter at Mamaw’s in Arkansas. Summer includes concerts on the neighborhood lawn and afternoons at the local pool. Finally, fall brings us to visit the farm to see the pumpkins, have a family bonfire, or a hayride!

Our interests blend a love for exploration and devotion to life’s simple pleasures. Kay Ellen has a special place in her heart for the beach, whether it’s the sound of the waves, the feel of the sand, or just relaxing by the water. Brian prefers a heated pool or sun exposed deck chair. We also enjoy attending concerts, soaking in live music, and worshiping by singing at church.

Hobbies that we hope to instill include the “thrill of the hunt” bargain shopping and estate sale outings. Seeking opportunities for educational events at the state fair, local museum or library. Hosting others around our custom dinner table for homemade meals.

Road trips are another favorite pastime of ours, especially the spontaneous ones. There’s something extraordinary to Kay Ellen when taking the spontaneous Saturday drive of Brian’s where we locate an unknown treasure or unique park.

A decision for adoption is a beautiful gift, and we want you to know that we will cherish and nurture this child every day. We can’t imagine the emotions you are experiencing right now, but please know that we are here to support you in whatever way feels best for you. We want to recognize that you are demonstrating extraordinary love and sacrifice by considering this path! We do not take that lightly. We pray for an open or semi-open relationship, if you desire, to share about the true life sacrifice we witnessed. 

We are excited to grow our family through adoption and are committed to creating a loving, intentional home, for our family to thrive in. Whether it’s neighborhood walks, attending church activities together, or enjoying family gatherings, we prioritize making memories with our loved ones. We can’t wait to share these special moments.

Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for considering us. No matter what you decide, we wish you peace, comfort, and strength in the days ahead.