Hello! We are Chase and Shelly. Our home is filled with laughs and love, kindness and caring, and energy and adventure each day. We are so grateful you have taken the time to look at our profile and learn more about our family.
Chase and Shelly met in January of 2006 through our roommates. We quickly became friends. In October of 2006, Chase left on a two-year mission for our church. Over those two years, we continued to stay connected by mailing letters back and forth. Toward the end of Chase’s mission, we began to realize we had more than just a great friendship. Chase arrived home in October of 2008, and we instantly began our courtship. It was not long before we realized that we had found our person, and we were married in August 2009.
About six years into our marriage, we decided it was time to start thinking about starting our family. Shelly had been diagnosed with PCOS, so we knew that getting pregnant would be a challenge. After two years of working with our fertility doctors, we welcomed our miracle, Brooks, into our family three days before Christmas 2017.
Even while we were dating, we knew that someday we wanted to adopt children. After having Brooks, we knew that we wanted our family to continue to grow, but this time through adoption. We are hopeful to welcome a child through open adoption!
Expectant mothers who choose to make an adoption plan may qualify for some level of financial assistance during their pregnancy. However, each person's situation and specific needs are different. Your adoption social worker can help you determine what level of assistance you qualify for and deserve. Many expectant mothers qualify for financial assistance to cover basic pregnancy and living expenses, including but not limited to - transportation reimbursement, utility assistance for phone, water, and electricity/gas, maternity clothing and supplements, etc.
It won't cost you anything. If you choose to place your baby for adoption, all of your medical and legal fees will be covered and you may be eligible for financial assistance with other pregnancy-related expenses.
Yes. Even if you don’t know the identity of the birth father, you can still choose to make an adoption plan. However, every adoption situation is different. The adoption social worker you’re assigned to will get to know you and your story first, and then guide you through the process accordingly.
You can make an adoption plan at any point in your pregnancy, even after the baby has been born. But, it's important to start the process as early in your pregnancy as possible. Connecting with those resources will allow you to gain access to important medical services, including prenatal care, to help ensure a healthy pregnancy.
One aspect of your adoption plan is the "Hospital Plan" an outline of how you'd like your hospital stay and delivery to go. You can craft this on your own or with the help of your adoption social worker. But everything is up to you. You’ll be able to choose who comes to the hospital with you, who is in the room with you during delivery, and how much time you’d like to spend with the baby before signing the final papers.
As part of your adoption plan, you'll determine whether or not you’d like to have an open or closed adoption or something in between. Open adoptions may include phone calls, messaging (via social media, email, or text), and/or periodic visits each year. Closed adoptions may include no contact at all or annual updates provided to the birth parent(s) by the adoptive family. Each post-adoption relationship is different and can vary based on what an expectant mother chooses in her adoption plan.
This was our last summer before Brooks started kindergarten. It was jam packed with beach trips, hikes, pool time, play dates, and visiting family. Brooks and Shelly spent a week in Texas meeting Spencer, Aunt Cami and Aunt Heathers new baby. She is the sweetest! After Texas we flew to Utah to a life celebration for Great Grandma Allie who passed away in March at the age of 90. It was so much fun to see the who family and be with cousins. We did our annual beach trip to Wrightsville beach just the 3 of us and enjoyed building sand castles, swimming in the pool and ocean. We closed out the summer with another trip to Utah for Shelly to participate in the 29029 challenge at snow basin. During which Shelly climbed the equivalent of the height or Everest! It was an amazing experience.
Last week Chase and I celebrated our 12th Anniversary. We decided to take a last minute trip to visit Smith Mountain Lake. The weather was absolutley beautiful! Friday morning we got up early and went to get breakfast. There was a marina right next to the coffee shop so we figured we would try out luck and see if they had any boats. As luck would have it , they had just recieved a cancellation for the day. So we jumped on our chance to rent the boat and cruise the lake for the day. We will definatly we going back again!
Last week we had the chance to head to our family beach. We were joined by Nanny and Grandpa. We spent the week building sand castles, playing in the pool, flying kites and playing games. Chase even managed to catch a record size Tuna!
Brooks started Kindergarten this year! I can hardly believe his is already old enough to be going to school! He loves his teacher and classmates so far and happily rides the bus!