We’re Clint and Katie, and our story began on a fun night out with friends, something we both enjoyed doing. We were drawn to each other’s easygoing personalities and shared love for spending time with others. Our first date was a double date with one of Katie’s friends (who’s now married to her date, too!) for dinner and a movie. Even though we lived nearly two hours apart at the time, we knew this connection was special and made it work.
Not long after, Clint found a job closer to Katie, and our relationship continued to grow. After dating for eighteen months, we got engaged and were married in August 2011. Our life together has been full of laughter, growth, and a deepening love for each other. We truly enjoy each other’s company and find joy in both big adventures and simple everyday moments.
Becoming parents has always been a part of our dream, something we talked about and looked forward to even before we were married. While we never expected to face infertility, our journey has only deepened our desire to grow our family. Through it all, our hope and excitement about raising a child have remained strong. We truly believe adoption is the path meant for us, and becoming parents would be our greatest joy and blessing.
We’re in a place in our lives where we’re ready to welcome a child with open arms and to provide a loving, supportive, and stable home. Our goal has always been to treat each other with love, respect, and kindness. We’re excited to share that same unconditional love as we grow our family through the gift of adoption.
Expectant mothers who choose to make an adoption plan may qualify for some level of financial assistance during their pregnancy. However, each person's situation and specific needs are different. Your adoption social worker can help you determine what level of assistance you qualify for and deserve. Many expectant mothers qualify for financial assistance to cover basic pregnancy and living expenses, including but not limited to - transportation reimbursement, utility assistance for phone, water, and electricity/gas, maternity clothing and supplements, etc.
It won't cost you anything. If you choose to place your baby for adoption, all of your medical and legal fees will be covered and you may be eligible for financial assistance with other pregnancy-related expenses.
Yes. Even if you don’t know the identity of the birth father, you can still choose to make an adoption plan. However, every adoption situation is different. The adoption social worker you’re assigned to will get to know you and your story first, and then guide you through the process accordingly.
You can make an adoption plan at any point in your pregnancy, even after the baby has been born. But, it's important to start the process as early in your pregnancy as possible. Connecting with those resources will allow you to gain access to important medical services, including prenatal care, to help ensure a healthy pregnancy.
One aspect of your adoption plan is the "Hospital Plan" an outline of how you'd like your hospital stay and delivery to go. You can craft this on your own or with the help of your adoption social worker. But everything is up to you. You’ll be able to choose who comes to the hospital with you, who is in the room with you during delivery, and how much time you’d like to spend with the baby before signing the final papers.
As part of your adoption plan, you'll determine whether or not you’d like to have an open or closed adoption or something in between. Open adoptions may include phone calls, messaging (via social media, email, or text), and/or periodic visits each year. Closed adoptions may include no contact at all or annual updates provided to the birth parent(s) by the adoptive family. Each post-adoption relationship is different and can vary based on what an expectant mother chooses in her adoption plan.