Hello friend, and welcome! Thank you for taking the time to learn about us as prospective parents and about our loving home.
We met at a church activity in July 2019, shortly after Cory relocated from Arizona to the Salt Lake City area. We connected on Facebook, but did not have much contact after that until October 2020, when Cory reached out looking for connections with others during the lockdown of the COVID Pandemic. Rebekah had just ended a year-long relationship and decided she was “done with dating,” however, based on past experiences, she was determined to go on a few dates.
While Rebekah was not looking for anything serious, as we got to know each other through the holidays of 2019, we started to develop a deeper connection. We discovered remarkable similarities, like a shared interest in Disney and in the old TV series M*A*S*H. We “went exclusive” in January 2021, got engaged in April 2021, and were married at the end of June 2021.
Unfortunately, due to age and health complications, we are unable to conceive biological children. Despite this, our desire to become parents and to grow our family remains strong, and we are excited to welcome a child into our hearts and home through adoption.
Expectant mothers who choose to make an adoption plan may qualify for some level of financial assistance during their pregnancy. However, each person's situation and specific needs are different. Your adoption social worker can help you determine what level of assistance you qualify for and deserve. Many expectant mothers qualify for financial assistance to cover basic pregnancy and living expenses, including but not limited to - transportation reimbursement, utility assistance for phone, water, and electricity/gas, maternity clothing and supplements, etc.
It won't cost you anything. If you choose to place your baby for adoption, all of your medical and legal fees will be covered and you may be eligible for financial assistance with other pregnancy-related expenses.
Yes. Even if you don’t know the identity of the birth father, you can still choose to make an adoption plan. However, every adoption situation is different. The adoption social worker you’re assigned to will get to know you and your story first, and then guide you through the process accordingly.
You can make an adoption plan at any point in your pregnancy, even after the baby has been born. But, it's important to start the process as early in your pregnancy as possible. Connecting with those resources will allow you to gain access to important medical services, including prenatal care, to help ensure a healthy pregnancy.
One aspect of your adoption plan is the "Hospital Plan" an outline of how you'd like your hospital stay and delivery to go. You can craft this on your own or with the help of your adoption social worker. But everything is up to you. You’ll be able to choose who comes to the hospital with you, who is in the room with you during delivery, and how much time you’d like to spend with the baby before signing the final papers.
As part of your adoption plan, you'll determine whether or not you’d like to have an open or closed adoption or something in between. Open adoptions may include phone calls, messaging (via social media, email, or text), and/or periodic visits each year. Closed adoptions may include no contact at all or annual updates provided to the birth parent(s) by the adoptive family. Each post-adoption relationship is different and can vary based on what an expectant mother chooses in her adoption plan.
Captain's Log.. I mean Adoption Adventure Log #1 Never really been much of a blogger, but I'll give it a try if it means raising awareness and potentially getting picked for a placement. I finally got captions added to our photos. Man, we've had some funtime! We obviously love Dinsney and getting out to see new things. I definitely want to keep that up when we have our family to instill a sense of adventure in our children. Life is too short and there's too much to see and experience to just sit at home every week. Of course, sometimes it's nice to be at home, but I never regret getting out for an adventure. Next up: Adding some Videos (what do we even say??)
Well, we finally made an introduction video. I specifically chose to do it on a Sunday because that's a day where I don't look like a ragamuffin. My hair and makeup are done, and, if you catch us right after church, we don't have our grubbies on yet. 😋However, I just discovered we can't just upload the video here. It has to be a YouTube or Vimeo link... that's an extra step I wasn't anticipating. Ha! Anyway, there is a video coming. I promise.