Dear Expectant Mother,

Thank you for taking the time to read our letter. We can only imagine how many emotions you must be feeling right now as you consider your options and what’s best for your child. We want you to know that we see your strength, courage, and love in this process, and we deeply respect the care and thought behind your decision.

We’re Earl and Max, and we’re so grateful for the chance to share a little bit about who we are. We’ve been together for over a decade and have built a life grounded in love, laughter, and connection. We live in a cozy home in the Bay Area surrounded by family, friends, and a close-knit community that supports us in every way. Our dog, Lucy, adds her own brand of joy — she’s friendly, funny, and always ready to greet visitors with a tail wag.

Family means everything to us. We love hosting Sunday dinners, exploring local parks, and traveling to new places. But what we look forward to most is becoming parents — to share our world, create new traditions, and guide a child with warmth, curiosity, and encouragement. We know that parenthood isn’t just about milestones — it’s about the quiet, everyday moments of care, laughter, and unconditional love.

If you choose us, we promise to provide a home filled with safety, stability, and belonging. Your child will always know their story — that they came into this world surrounded by love from both you and us. We will honor your courage and speak of you with gratitude and respect.

No matter what you decide, please know that we are holding you in our thoughts and sending strength your way.

With love and respect,
Earl & Max (and Lucy too)

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Financial Support

Expectant mothers who choose to make an adoption plan may qualify for some level of financial assistance during their pregnancy. However, each person's situation and specific needs are different. Your adoption social worker can help you determine what level of assistance you qualify for and deserve. Many expectant mothers qualify for financial assistance to cover basic pregnancy and living expenses, including but not limited to - transportation reimbursement, utility assistance for phone, water, and electricity/gas, maternity clothing and supplements, etc.

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FAQ’s about placing a baby for Adoption

I'm considering giving my baby up for adoption. How much does that cost?

It won't cost you anything. If you choose to place your baby for adoption, all of your medical and legal fees will be covered and you may be eligible for financial assistance with other pregnancy-related expenses.

I'm experiencing an unplanned pregnancy and don't know who the birth father is. Can I still place my baby for adoption?

Yes. Even if you don’t know the identity of the birth father, you can still choose to make an adoption plan. However, every adoption situation is different. The adoption social worker you’re assigned to will get to know you and your story first, and then guide you through the process accordingly.

When is the right time to talk with an adoption professional?

You can make an adoption plan at any point in your pregnancy, even after the baby has been born. But, it's important to start the process as early in your pregnancy as possible. Connecting with those resources will allow you to gain access to important medical services, including prenatal care, to help ensure a healthy pregnancy.

When I create an adoption plan, will I get to choose who is in the room with me during delivery?

One aspect of your adoption plan is the "Hospital Plan" an outline of how you'd like your hospital stay and delivery to go. You can craft this on your own or with the help of your adoption social worker. But everything is up to you. You’ll be able to choose who comes to the hospital with you, who is in the room with you during delivery, and how much time you’d like to spend with the baby before signing the final papers.

How much contact will I have with the adoptive family after I place my baby with them?

As part of your adoption plan, you'll determine whether or not you’d like to have an open or closed adoption or something in between. Open adoptions may include phone calls, messaging (via social media, email, or text), and/or periodic visits each year. Closed adoptions may include no contact at all or annual updates provided to the birth parent(s) by the adoptive family. Each post-adoption relationship is different and can vary based on what an expectant mother chooses in her adoption plan.

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Celebrating Max and Lucy’s Birthday Weekend!

10/29/2025

This weekend we celebrated two birthdays that mean a lot to us — Max’s and our sweet dog Lucy’s! Their birthdays fall just a few days apart, so it’s become a fun yearly tradition to celebrate them together. We kicked off the morning with good coffee, a big breakfast, and a playlist full of favorites. Lucy got her own “pup cake” — peanut butter and banana, of course — complete with a tiny candle. She wagged her tail through the whole song, clearly thrilled to be the center of attention. Later in the day, a few friends joined us for a small backyard gathering. The weather couldn’t have been better — sunny with a light breeze, perfect for grilling and relaxing outside. We decorated with bright balloons and a few playful touches for Lucy, including a dog-friendly treat bar that turned out to be a big hit. Max’s cake was chocolate with layers of ganache (Lucy definitely didn’t get a piece of that one), and we ended the night with laughter, music, and the kind of easy joy that comes from being surrounded by people — and pets — you love. Celebrations like this remind us how special it is...

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A Night to Remember: Performing on Stage for 7,000 People

10/29/2025

This past weekend was one for the books — I had the incredible opportunity to perform on a big stage in front of more than 7,000 people at a major music festival. Even after years of performing, walking out under those bright lights and seeing a sea of faces cheering back was absolutely breathtaking. The energy in the crowd was electric. From the first note to the final bow, it felt like everyone in the audience was part of the same heartbeat — clapping, singing, and swaying together. It’s a rare and humbling thing to feel that much connection with so many people at once. Max was in the audience, camera in hand, smiling from ear to ear. Knowing he was out there made it all the more special. When the set ended, the applause seemed to last forever — one of those surreal moments where time slows down just long enough for you to take it all in. Afterward, a few of us from the group grabbed a late dinner to wind down. The adrenaline was still high, but mostly I just felt grateful — for the music, the team that made it possible, and the community that came...

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