We are Jason and Heather. Thank you for taking time to get to know us. We cannot wait to meet you!
Thank you for your selflessness in considering adoption. We cannot imagine the weight of this decision for you and are so grateful to be considered as part of it. We have one amazing child and hope to be able to add your precious child to our family. As devoted parents we are determined to protect, love, and nurture the children we raise spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically. We cannot wait to discover your child's unique passions, gifts, and talents and to direct their growth and development as they begin to pursue their hopes, dreams, and ventures into adulthood. If chosen, we promise to love your sweet baby with every ounce of our being. As your child grows, they will always know the beginning of their story and the loving sacrifice you made for them.
Expectant mothers who choose to make an adoption plan may qualify for some level of financial assistance during their pregnancy. However, each person's situation and specific needs are different. Your adoption social worker can help you determine what level of assistance you qualify for and deserve. Many expectant mothers qualify for financial assistance to cover basic pregnancy and living expenses, including but not limited to - transportation reimbursement, utility assistance for phone, water, and electricity/gas, maternity clothing and supplements, etc.
It won't cost you anything. If you choose to place your baby for adoption, all of your medical and legal fees will be covered and you may be eligible for financial assistance with other pregnancy-related expenses.
Yes. Even if you don’t know the identity of the birth father, you can still choose to make an adoption plan. However, every adoption situation is different. The adoption social worker you’re assigned to will get to know you and your story first, and then guide you through the process accordingly.
You can make an adoption plan at any point in your pregnancy, even after the baby has been born. But, it's important to start the process as early in your pregnancy as possible. Connecting with those resources will allow you to gain access to important medical services, including prenatal care, to help ensure a healthy pregnancy.
One aspect of your adoption plan is the "Hospital Plan" an outline of how you'd like your hospital stay and delivery to go. You can craft this on your own or with the help of your adoption social worker. But everything is up to you. You’ll be able to choose who comes to the hospital with you, who is in the room with you during delivery, and how much time you’d like to spend with the baby before signing the final papers.
As part of your adoption plan, you'll determine whether or not you’d like to have an open or closed adoption or something in between. Open adoptions may include phone calls, messaging (via social media, email, or text), and/or periodic visits each year. Closed adoptions may include no contact at all or annual updates provided to the birth parent(s) by the adoptive family. Each post-adoption relationship is different and can vary based on what an expectant mother chooses in her adoption plan.
We had so much fun ringing in the new year with a party at our local Childrens Museum. We went back last week for some sandbox construction fun. It's Transportation Month at the museum, which is perfect for our son John. He loves all kinds of vehicles!
My son asked me to take selfies of us on my phone while we were at the park, and I was more than happy to oblige. I am so thankful I get to be this precious little boy's mom.
We spent the morning checking out an indoor playground during their designated Tot Time. John had so much fun climbing, sliding, crawling through tunnels, playing in balls pits and bouncing on trampolines. He particularly loved the vehicle merry-go-round as they are his current obsession.