Hello, Beautiful Soul!
We appreciate you reading our story. Take a moment to unwind and Be Our Guest while you read about us.
We met online in 2015, intending to be just friends. After first meeting, we realized something more could be there. With a kiss before midnight, we have been inseparable ever since.
There certainly was, and in 2017, on the 2nd anniversary of us meeting, Jordan proposed. It was a truly magical moment at Cinderella's Castle in Disney World - shared with Princesses Aurora and Ariel. We got married on our 4th dating anniversary, September 21st, 2019. There is no excuse to forget that date, lol! And we honeymooned in you guessed it... Disney World!
Now, the reason why we’re here: starting a family has always been part of our dream. We talked at length about what that looked like, and we both fell in love with the opportunity to adopt. One of our core beliefs is that every soul deserves a safe and loving home.
Adoption planning is an emotional and impactful journey, requiring thought, dedication, and love from everyone involved. If there’s one thing we want you to know, it’s this: our hearts are full of unconditional love and support—not just for the child(ren) but also for you, the expectant parent(s).
Expectant mothers who choose to make an adoption plan may qualify for some level of financial assistance during their pregnancy. However, each person's situation and specific needs are different. Your adoption social worker can help you determine what level of assistance you qualify for and deserve. Many expectant mothers qualify for financial assistance to cover basic pregnancy and living expenses, including but not limited to - transportation reimbursement, utility assistance for phone, water, and electricity/gas, maternity clothing and supplements, etc.
It won't cost you anything. If you choose to place your baby for adoption, all of your medical and legal fees will be covered and you may be eligible for financial assistance with other pregnancy-related expenses.
Yes. Even if you don’t know the identity of the birth father, you can still choose to make an adoption plan. However, every adoption situation is different. The adoption social worker you’re assigned to will get to know you and your story first, and then guide you through the process accordingly.
You can make an adoption plan at any point in your pregnancy, even after the baby has been born. But, it's important to start the process as early in your pregnancy as possible. Connecting with those resources will allow you to gain access to important medical services, including prenatal care, to help ensure a healthy pregnancy.
One aspect of your adoption plan is the "Hospital Plan" an outline of how you'd like your hospital stay and delivery to go. You can craft this on your own or with the help of your adoption social worker. But everything is up to you. You’ll be able to choose who comes to the hospital with you, who is in the room with you during delivery, and how much time you’d like to spend with the baby before signing the final papers.
As part of your adoption plan, you'll determine whether or not you’d like to have an open or closed adoption or something in between. Open adoptions may include phone calls, messaging (via social media, email, or text), and/or periodic visits each year. Closed adoptions may include no contact at all or annual updates provided to the birth parent(s) by the adoptive family. Each post-adoption relationship is different and can vary based on what an expectant mother chooses in her adoption plan.
Hello to whomever is reading this! Whether you are a birth-parent, expecting parent, a friend/family member, or just someone bored on the internet - I hope you are having an amazing day. Know you are loved and appreciated! It's been roughly 4 months since Jordan and I have been home study approved. Man, that paperwork is no joke! They say one of the hardest parts is waiting. I am starting to understand why that's the phrase.. While it's only been 4 months since we've been on the list, wanting to start a family has been in the works for years. Always on our goals list and we seriously began talking and researching about it 2-3 years ago. To look back and see how far we have come is eye opening and humbling. We wouldn't be here without our friends and family supporting us, but most importantly, eachother. Anyways! Lately Jordan and I have been keeping busy. It's pretty cool from what he's described. This past weekend we hung out with his Mom's side of the family for 4th of July and watched the fireworks. Jordan started his new job this week, working with Passports. And this weekend we are seeing...
Back to blog again! It's 7/14/2025 - struggling to stay awake this Monday for all of the right reasons. Jordan and I had an action packed weekend with going to a local Comedy Club on Saturday and then attending my stepbrother's wedding on Sunday. It was filled with such wonderful memories, memories I don't take lightly or for granted. That is why I wanted to take a moment and make this a "blog update". The wedding was a very small, down to earth, ceremony. There were maybe 25 of us, with just as many young kids as there were us "old people". A majority of the family was on the brides side, while there were 4 of us adults on the grooms side. 2/3 of my stepbrother's children attended. 9 year old neice and 2 Month old neice. I give those details because it was so heart warming how the bride's family loved my neices and accepted them as their own, no questions asked. We are a very blended family, and the bride's family didn't even bat an eye. The 9 year old played with the other children her age and the 2 Month old was passed around and given...