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To The One Who Gave Her Life
TO THE COURAGEOUS WOMAN READING THIS —
Please know we see you — with open and compassionate hearts.
We can only imagine the weight of what you're carrying — the questions, the love, the impossible bravery of it all. Regardless of your decision, we are so honored by your presence here. We hope to offer comfort in knowing that if we are given the gift of raising your daughter, she will grow up knowing she was loved from the very beginning — first by you, and then by us.
We are humbled that you are considering our family to become hers. If chosen, your love will never be erased from her story; it will live on in the way we speak her name, honor her roots, and raise her with reverence for how she came to be ours.
Her story begins with you — with the kind of selfless love only a mother can give. We will raise her knowing the depth of your love and the strength it took to place her in our arms.
We would love to share cards, letters, photos, and even get together for visits over the years as she grows, but we will respect whatever level of openness you are most comfortable with. We are thinking of and praying for you daily. We hope you are surrounded by love and support as you navigate all of these difficult emotions.
With sincere hearts,
Katie & Brad
With honor for the one who entrusts us with no greater gift, & with gratitude for the thread that ties her story to ours.
A Note To Her
TO THE DAUGHTER FOR WHOM WE WAIT—
You are already loved, deeply cherished, & always meant to be.
You carry a story that began before you ever arrived — and we are honored to be part of its unfolding.
You were loved long before we met you — by the one who carried you with courage — and by us — who prayed for you for a lifetime before we even knew your name.
We can't wait to welcome you home.
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Expectant mothers who choose to make an adoption plan may qualify for some level of financial assistance during their pregnancy. However, each person's situation and specific needs are different. Your adoption social worker can help you determine what level of assistance you qualify for and deserve. Many expectant mothers qualify for financial assistance to cover basic pregnancy and living expenses, including but not limited to - transportation reimbursement, utility assistance for phone, water, and electricity/gas, maternity clothing and supplements, etc.
FAQ’s about placing a baby for Adoption
I'm considering giving my baby up for adoption. How much does that cost?
It won't cost you anything. If you choose to place your baby for adoption, all of your medical and legal fees will be covered and you may be eligible for financial assistance with other pregnancy-related expenses.
I'm experiencing an unplanned pregnancy and don't know who the birth father is. Can I still place my baby for adoption?
Yes. Even if you don’t know the identity of the birth father, you can still choose to make an adoption plan. However, every adoption situation is different. The adoption social worker you’re assigned to will get to know you and your story first, and then guide you through the process accordingly.
When is the right time to talk with an adoption professional?
You can make an adoption plan at any point in your pregnancy, even after the baby has been born. But, it's important to start the process as early in your pregnancy as possible. Connecting with those resources will allow you to gain access to important medical services, including prenatal care, to help ensure a healthy pregnancy.
When I create an adoption plan, will I get to choose who is in the room with me during delivery?
One aspect of your adoption plan is the "Hospital Plan" an outline of how you'd like your hospital stay and delivery to go. You can craft this on your own or with the help of your adoption social worker. But everything is up to you. You’ll be able to choose who comes to the hospital with you, who is in the room with you during delivery, and how much time you’d like to spend with the baby before signing the final papers.
How much contact will I have with the adoptive family after I place my baby with them?
As part of your adoption plan, you'll determine whether or not you’d like to have an open or closed adoption or something in between. Open adoptions may include phone calls, messaging (via social media, email, or text), and/or periodic visits each year. Closed adoptions may include no contact at all or annual updates provided to the birth parent(s) by the adoptive family. Each post-adoption relationship is different and can vary based on what an expectant mother chooses in her adoption plan.
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10/05/2025
Thank you for considering us to be a big, loving, supportive family for your sweet child. We could not be more honored that you would love to know more about us. We care about YOU. We want you to be sure first. And if your heart leads you to adoption and to our family, you can be CERTAIN your child will always be cherished and cared for beyond measure. I’d love to work on some videos on YouTube or Instagram or both so you can really get a feel for me (Katie) as a person and a mom as well as our family and a day in the life of our home if you’re hesitant to reach out and if they could help you feel more comfortable. I will try to get some uploaded soon and on a regular basis, although I must admit, I am no professional! I just want to be able to let you know us a bit more so you can feel more comfortable in your decision, wherever that may lead you. Our instagram is KatieandBradWaitingtoAdopt and I will start a YouTube but will be able to upload those here too! Remember, you are stronger than...
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Thank you for considering us to be a big, loving, supportive family for your sweet child. We could not be more honored that you would love to know more about us. We care about YOU. We want you to be sure first. And if your heart leads you to adoption and to our family, you can be CERTAIN your child will always be cherished and cared for beyond measure. I’d love to work on some videos on YouTube or Instagram or both so you can really get a feel for me (Katie) as a person and a mom as well as our family and a day in the life of our home if you’re hesitant to reach out and if they could help you feel more comfortable. I will try to get some uploaded soon and on a regular basis, although I must admit, I am no professional! I just want to be able to let you know us a bit more so you can feel more comfortable in your decision, wherever that may lead you. Our instagram is KatieandBradWaitingtoAdopt and I will start a YouTube but will be able to upload those here too! Remember, you are stronger than...
In the Waiting
09/30/2025
✨ This little outfit with the word chosen is framed with two treasures: a verse I’ve clung to in the waiting, and a prayer written in my Bible by my grandmother over 20 years ago. She’s in heaven now, but she spent her life praying for all of us. I know she would have loved this child so deeply. Her words remind me that even when I can’t see what God is doing, His plan is perfect and His timing is sure. 📖 “When the time is right, I, the Lord, will make it happen.” – Isaiah 60:22 📖 “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths.” – Proverbs 3:5–6 This collage isn’t just a decoration — it’s a reminder. A reminder that the waiting has purpose. That the story is already being written. And to the expectant moms who may also be wondering how things will ever work out: you are seen, you are not forgotten, and the same God who is writing my story is writing yours too.
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✨ This little outfit with the word chosen is framed with two treasures: a verse I’ve clung to in the waiting, and a prayer written in my Bible by my grandmother over 20 years ago. She’s in heaven now, but she spent her life praying for all of us. I know she would have loved this child so deeply. Her words remind me that even when I can’t see what God is doing, His plan is perfect and His timing is sure. 📖 “When the time is right, I, the Lord, will make it happen.” – Isaiah 60:22 📖 “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths.” – Proverbs 3:5–6 This collage isn’t just a decoration — it’s a reminder. A reminder that the waiting has purpose. That the story is already being written. And to the expectant moms who may also be wondering how things will ever work out: you are seen, you are not forgotten, and the same God who is writing my story is writing yours too.
His Mercies Are New Every Morning
09/29/2025
We had so much fun having my best friend of 15 years and her son come stay the weekend for their soccer tournament in town. Despite all the corn hole, board games, tag, and fort building fun we had, we had some teachable moments too. In our family, we don’t expect perfection — we teach repair. When mistakes happen, we sit down together, talk it through, and guide our kids to make it right. This note is an example of how we practice kindness, forgiveness, and growing stronger together.
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We had so much fun having my best friend of 15 years and her son come stay the weekend for their soccer tournament in town. Despite all the corn hole, board games, tag, and fort building fun we had, we had some teachable moments too. In our family, we don’t expect perfection — we teach repair. When mistakes happen, we sit down together, talk it through, and guide our kids to make it right. This note is an example of how we practice kindness, forgiveness, and growing stronger together.
You’re in our hearts today & always
09/28/2025
We just have you on our mind and want you to know, we are thinking about you today and always. Hugs, Mama.
We just have you on our mind and want you to know, we are thinking about you today and always. Hugs, Mama.
To the Woman Whose Love Will Change Everything
09/24/2025
Dear Mama, We don’t know your name. We don’t know where you are, what you’re facing, or how your story will unfold from here. But we think about you every single day. Sometimes we imagine you feeling uncertain. Other times we imagine you feeling incredibly strong. And maybe, somehow, you’re both — carrying more than anyone knows. We want you to know this: We see you. Even from a distance. Even without knowing your face. We see your strength. We see the courage it takes to carry life while making a decision that no one should ever have to make alone. If our paths do cross — if we’re given the unspeakable honor of parenting the child you bring into this world — please know this: Your presence will always be part of her story. We will speak of you with gentleness. We will honor your love, not hide it. She will grow up knowing she was chosen — by you, and by us. This is not the replacement of one family with another. It’s the weaving together of something sacred — a story only God could write. And you will never be forgotten. Wherever life takes you, we will...
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Dear Mama, We don’t know your name. We don’t know where you are, what you’re facing, or how your story will unfold from here. But we think about you every single day. Sometimes we imagine you feeling uncertain. Other times we imagine you feeling incredibly strong. And maybe, somehow, you’re both — carrying more than anyone knows. We want you to know this: We see you. Even from a distance. Even without knowing your face. We see your strength. We see the courage it takes to carry life while making a decision that no one should ever have to make alone. If our paths do cross — if we’re given the unspeakable honor of parenting the child you bring into this world — please know this: Your presence will always be part of her story. We will speak of you with gentleness. We will honor your love, not hide it. She will grow up knowing she was chosen — by you, and by us. This is not the replacement of one family with another. It’s the weaving together of something sacred — a story only God could write. And you will never be forgotten. Wherever life takes you, we will...
The Start of Something Sacred
09/24/2025
We don’t know her name yet. We don’t know what she’ll look like, or when she’ll arrive, or how the path will unfold. But we know this: We’re saying yes. Yes to love before certainty. Yes to hope before clarity. Yes to waiting with open arms, even when it aches. This is the beginning of our adoption journey — though in many ways, it began long before now. In our prayers. In the quiet nudges. In the space we saved in our hearts and in our home for someone we haven’t met, but already cherish. We don’t know how long this road will be. We only know that it matters. That she matters. If you’re reading this, thank you for being part of our village — the people who hold hope with us and make the waiting a little lighter. This diary will be messy at times — full of vulnerability, paperwork, prayers, and maybe a few tears. But it will also be full of beauty. Because love always is. We’re ready, little one. Whenever you are.
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We don’t know her name yet. We don’t know what she’ll look like, or when she’ll arrive, or how the path will unfold. But we know this: We’re saying yes. Yes to love before certainty. Yes to hope before clarity. Yes to waiting with open arms, even when it aches. This is the beginning of our adoption journey — though in many ways, it began long before now. In our prayers. In the quiet nudges. In the space we saved in our hearts and in our home for someone we haven’t met, but already cherish. We don’t know how long this road will be. We only know that it matters. That she matters. If you’re reading this, thank you for being part of our village — the people who hold hope with us and make the waiting a little lighter. This diary will be messy at times — full of vulnerability, paperwork, prayers, and maybe a few tears. But it will also be full of beauty. Because love always is. We’re ready, little one. Whenever you are.
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